About Exploring Without Self-Judgement

The Musical U team discusses the practice of exploring and pushing the boundaries of your musicality without self-judgement – and the wonderful breakthroughs it can lead to.

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Christopher S.: Hello, and welcome to the Musicality Podcast. My name is Christopher Sutton. I’m the founder and director of Musical U. And it’s my pleasure to be joined today by Adam Liette, Sara Campbell, and Stewart Hilton for one in a series of episodes we’re doing, following up on our 100th Episode celebration, which was actually a two-parter, featuring 26 people, experts on music education and musicality, talking about their one tip to help you unlock your inner musicality.

And we’re picking up on a few common themes that came through in their answers. Today we’re gonna be talking about exploring without self-judgment. And this came up with five or six of our guests, that I noticed.
David Wallimann talked about how you can get away from worrying about instrument technique by learning to sing before you pick up your instrument- or, rather, to put down your instrument before you try and create something in music.

Bill Hilton also talked about exploratory type of playing. Forrest Kinney said that worry about being advanced or impressive is gonna paralyze you for cultivating the sensitivity, which is really what music is all about. So he really saw it as a crippling thing, if you were getting that self-judgment going in your head, while you tried to play.
Leila Viss talked about how you shouldn’t be sheepish about borrowing from other musicians or other creators and producing something that’s not yet perfect. She talked about focusing on giving things your own unique spin and exploring from there.

Natalie Weber talked about giving yourself space to experiment and create, and recommended finding people and resources that support you in doing that.

And Sara Campbell, who is with us on the episode today, was talking about how children approach music and improvisation in a very different way- in part, because they don’t have so much of that self-judgment.
So maybe we’ll kick off this one with Sara, if you don’t mind. Before we do, though, we’ll just do a quick intro for anyone who hasn’t met Adam or Stewart before. Adam, could you just introduce yourself and what you do at Musical U and outside?

Adam Liette: Hi, my name’s Adam Liette. I’m the Communications Manager at Musical U. I play the trumpet and guitar, and a very proud father of four.

Christopher S.: Terrific. And Stewart?

Stewart Hilton: Hi, I’m Stewart Hilton. I am the Community Conductor on the Musical U member site. You’ve probably seen me all over the place- emails and on the site. And outside Musical U, I play with a tribute artist, another band on the side, and at church. And there you go. I have two dogs. We have two dogs.

Christopher S.: Very good. And Sara, I believe you’re more of a cat person, but tell us a bit about yourself.

Sara Campbell: Yes, in fact, my cat is over there sleeping, where we’re recording this podcast. (Laughing)

And so I am a piano and voice teacher. And I’m also a music business coach. So I spend a lot of time talking with other teachers about all kinds of teaching things, business things. And improvisation is always a pretty hot topic.
Because, you know, there are so many wonderful resources out there now. And so we spend a lot of time chatting about it.

Christopher S.: So I mentioned that your contribution for our roundup episode, where you were talking about children and adults and their difference in mindset – could you just, kind of, recap what you were sharing their and share any other thoughts you have on this idea of exploring without self-judgment?

Sara Campbell: Sure. So in a nutshell, it’s the concept that little kids really don’t have this big, scary inner critic that we develop as we get older. And so improvisation, for children, can be a very, very natural activity.

For instance, think of two- and three-year-olds. When music is being played, they automatically start dancing. I mean, it’s not even a question. They are gonna move their bodies. They are gonna sing along.

I was watching a little cell phone snippet of my niece. And here she is, doing these little dances and singing just the first and, like, last syllable of the phrases – and kind of putting her own spin on it. So that’s what it is. It’s all about that little kids – they naturally tend towards improvisation without fear.

Christopher S.: Awesome. And I think we can all relate to that inner critic. You know, you may not have thought about it by that term before, but we all have that voice in our head who, as soon as we play a wrong note, is like, “I’m such an idiot. Or “I really should have practiced more.”

And particularly, as you say – it’s not just in improv. But improv is maybe the purest form, where we’re really expecting ourselves to create on the spot. And that puts us on the spot to be good. And our inner critic is just waiting for us to do something that is not perfect.

So Sara, you teach adults and children. What strategies or advice or approaches have you found to help people with this, if they’re struggling with that inner critic?

Sara Campbell: Well, you just actually kind of hit on one of the biggest things that I discuss with my students, of all ages. It’s the concept that if we allow that inner critic to take over- and let’s say you definitely hit a note that kind of sounded like a clunker. Or you sang something that didn’t sound like you wanted it to.

As adults, we are brought out of the moment, and all of a sudden, we are more concerned with the fact that, “Oh my gosh, I just sounded horrible”- which, in reality, you probably didn’t It just didn’t sound the way you wanted it to.
So our biggest enemy is actually ourself. Because if we allow that inner critic to push us out of the moment, then we are no longer focused on what’s going to happen next. And so we have to be really good about releasing that self-judgment and just going, “Okay. Well, it wasn’t what I wanted. Keep going. I’m gonna find what I want next time.”

Christopher S.: Nice. I love it. And I was reminded, when I started thinking about this topic, that actually this came up a little in your interview on the podcast before. I think you were talking about singing- specifically, when you were younger. And how you’d wait until everyone was out of the house to practice singing.

And I think that’s like what you were just saying. You need to give yourself an environment, whether it’s physically or mentally, where you can really feel like it’s okay to make a mistake. And you can stop that instinctive, reactive, “oh no, you’re terrible” voice in your head.

Sara Campbell: Exactly. And I think, as musicians, we need to be able to find that safe space to practice. And hopefully, if you’re studying with a teacher, your lesson space should be that safe space.

And that’s what I tell all my vocalists and my pianists. “We can make as many ugly sounds in this room as we want. And let’s explore all of those. And you know what? Eventually, we’re gonna find some sounds that we really like. So release the self-judgment. Leave it at the door. And let’s get to work.”

Christopher S.: Awesome. So Adam, how about you? Where has this come up in your musical life?

Adam Liette: Oh, I remember- so I do play guitar. But I was always a heavy metal guitar play- as heavy as I could get. And suddenly I found myself as the front man and musical leader of a country band. Long story, but it happened. And I’m like –

Christopher S.: How has it taken us two years to discover this about you? Where are the photos?

Adam Liette: Oh, I’ll find them. Yeah. I’ve got them.

And so yeah. It’s like, hey. You’re gonna play country now. Were you aware?

And I didn’t even have any country in my iTunes, none of it. So I quickly downloaded some Greatest Hits albums and got some guidance on where to start. And I was absolutely terrible.

I didn’t have the style in my ears. I was trying to learn it, and play it, sing it. So I had to sing, too. ‘Cause, you know, that makes it easier, right?

And it was just an incredibly difficult learning curve, to try to learn this entirely new genre. And, by the way, no one else in the band had ever played country, either. So I was having to direct them.

And I remember just, for weeks, thinking, “This isn’t gonna work. I’m gonna get fired. It’s not gonna happen.” And then I happened to go home. I’d been away from home for a bit.

And I got home. And my wife was terribly excited, because she’s a big country music fan. And she’s like, “You’re finally playing music I like. Here’s your guitar. Play some.” And was like, “Okay. You’re not gonna like it. It sounds terrible.”

And I started playing. And my kids were really little at the time. And they come out, and they just start dancing. And it’s like- okay. And my wife, little known to me, was recording me playing. And she’s like, “That sounded really good.”
And I’m like, “It did not. It sounded terrible.” And she played back the recording. And it actually did sound pretty decent. And I did some reflection.

And where self-judgment came in for me was- I was trying to sound like Garth Brooks. I was trying to sound like Brad Paisley. I can’t be Garth Brooks. I’m always gonna sound like Adam Liette.

So as long as I accept that, and say, “Well, it’s always gonna have my unique spin on it. Because that’s me coming through my music” … and suddenly, everything was easier. The performances came easier, the practice came easier. I pulled back from learning from very, very early, beginner songs to learning some pretty complex songs and playing three-hour shows – in country, in this new genre that I’d learned a month ago.

But it wasn’t until I realized that I can’t try to sound like everyone else.

Christopher S.: Yeah. Super interesting. I love that recording was a factor in that realization for you. ‘Cause that was definitely something that I had on my mind, thinking about this top. And you know, Gerald Klickstein talked about that in his contribution for our hundredth episodes, and it’s come up several times on the podcast.

Because we always recommend, at Musical U- that can be a great way to become more self-aware, to become more self-accepting, to work on your mistakes, to improve. You know there are so many ways it helps you to record your practice and listen back.

But it can go either way. You know, if you’ve never heard yourself before, you can come away thinking, “Oh my gosh, I sounded terrible.” And it can exacerbate that problem. And I think there’s always that hurdle to get past, of being comfortable with how you sound- particularly for singers, but I think in any case.

And then you can start to hear a bit more objectively. As you experienced, it can be a really fantastic way to step back and be like, “Oh. Okay. If I’m not hearing that inner critic for every single note and being judgmental about every single imperfection, actually, that sounded pretty good.”

And I forget who it was I was listening to recently that was talking about how music is fundamentally different from other art forms. Oh, it might have been Gerald Klickstein, in fact. Because it is temporal.

You know, you can’t step back and look at your painting, or you can’t look at it the way you do with a painting. You can only record yourself and listen back. In the moment, you have no chance of hearing it objectively.

And I think that’s what makes it so important. And it gives you the ability to separate, I think, the exploration from the self-judgment. So it doesn’t destroy your inner critic. But it lets you, at least, separate the two, so that you’re not trying to explore while judging yourself. I think that can be really useful.

Adam Liette: But I do often wonder- if I had known she was recording it, would it have been that good? Maybe we should put, like –

Christopher S.: That’s a great point.

Adam Liette: Recording tip. Like – have someone record you without you knowing it.

Sara Campbell: I do that with some of my young kids. Like, if we’re performing a duet together, I’ll be super sneaky and set up my cell phone on a shelf, while they’re playing it, behind them. So they’re not the best shots, because it’s normally from behind so that they can’t see me. But you know what? They always perform better if they don’t know that they’re being recorded.

Christopher S.: That’s awesome. And I think that’s a really great gift to give them. Because it does- yeah. Yeah. It’s beautiful because they wouldn’t have said yes. If you’d asked to record them, they would have said, “No, I don’t want you to record it. I’m not perfect.” And that inner critic would have held them back.

But you give them that opportunity. And I think that’s really neat.

Adam Liette: That happened to me in the recording studio, once. I couldn’t nail this fill. And the engineer was like, “Just practice it. I won’t hit record.” And I finally got it. I’m like, “Okay, let’s record it.” And he’s like, “I just did.”

Christopher S.: (Laughing)

Adam Liette: Nevermind.

Stewart Hilton: Well, I gotta say, along with Adam, I was a – through the 80s and 90s, I was a metal-head also. And, as a metal-head, you do not explore other styles of music. No. You will be excommunicated from the metal scene. Okay, maybe it’s not that bad. But anyway, at some point, I got into explore other things.

Because the church we were going to loved to throw in country songs. They threw in a disco song at one time. And somehow, they became challenges to me. And then they even had a musical – they did two years of musicals. And one was “Footloose.” And I immediately signed up for the guitar part. I was like, “Yeah, let me try that.”

But it has taken me into areas- not only country, which- the one band I have does, like, country Southern rock. But with this tribute artist, it took me into a whole new space- which was when he told me “By the way, we’ll be doing disco. We have a disco act and an 80s act, which – also, by the way, you have to wear a costume.”

So to do this and not being judgemental on myself – that became really tough. Because I don’t look like I did when I was in my 20s. I’m 50 now.

But it’s kind of helped me just be open. And I kind of enjoy playing the disco stuff. Because there’s, underneath the disco-ness, there’s funk and R&B. And for a guitar player, that can be really fun.

But you just have to kind of get past the platform shoes, the leisure suits, and some of the other interesting disco things. But yeah. It’s kind of cool to do that, especially when you quit judging yourself and going on that.

But I find it interesting- ’cause I’ve tried to find other guitar players to do this. And there’s a lot of people who won’t cut out of the style they’re used to because they’re like, “I won’t do that.” And I’m like, “Well, you know. You could have a really nice gig here, if you want to explore this.”

But they won’t do it. They just want to stay in their zone. And I’m like- you know, technically, they have the ability to do anything they want. But they won’t go out of it. So it’s kind of neat to break that wall down, so you can kind of explore and enjoy it.

Christopher S.: Yeah. For sure. I just finished recording an interview with a guy called Josh Plotner. And one of the big themes was putting your ego aside. Like, he is someone who has constantly put himself into awkward musical situations that he’s not quite ready for, and really benefited from it. Because it kind of forces you to level up.
And it’s not easy to do. That inner critic is your ego. It’s the part of you that says, “I don’t want to mess up ’cause people will judge me for it.” And it’s such a powerful thing, if you can gradually learn to put that aside.

And I love that, in your case, it literally involved a costume. Because I think, figuratively, that could be a really nice way to do it. If you sit down to practice improvisation, and- instead of feeling like, I am practicing improvisation- you say, “You know, what would this feel like if I were just a five-year-old practicing improvisation?”- like Sarah was talking about.

That mental shift of, “I’ll pretend to be someone who does this” can actually be a really nice way to short-circuit that inner critic and separate out the ego and self-judgment.

Stewart Hilton: It has done. Because I am – anyone who’s known me for a long time knows I will – I am one of the best beating-up-of-myself people there is. My wife gets on me all the time. She’s like, “You weren’t that bad.” And I’m like, “I’ve done better.”

But I think I’ve come to an area- and I think Sara said something that may have joggled this- being honest with myself, but not beating myself up. And just finding, like, an honest area that I can say, “Okay, this part I did was really good. However, this- I probably need to go over it again. And just iron some things out.”

And that’s kind of a nice area to find.

Christopher S.: Yeah. And I think that’s the big secret that comes up when talking about self-recording- is that, if you listen and try to judge it as a whole, it’s really hard not to be really critical. But if you listen, and you’re like, “Well, how were dynamics on that? How was my phrasing? How did I play this bar?” Suddenly, you realize, actually, there were a lot of things you were doing right. And it helps you to be objective and to escape from that quagmire of self-judgment.

And I think that honesty and objectivity often comes through just being very specific about what you’re trying to pay attention to and improve on.

Fantastic. Well, I was really keen to look at this one. Because I think it’s something we all continually work on. I’m sure you guys would agree, this isn’t something that you master at the age of twelve and never worry about again. In fact that, age of twelve is fully the worst phase for it.

But I think we can all do with a reminder that we’re all in the same boat. We all have that inner critic, and we’re all constantly trying to quiet it down so that we can get on with the business of making music.

So thank you, Adam, Sara, and Stewart for joining me for this episode. And yeah, stay tuned for the next ones in this series.

I believe on the next one, we may be talking about the importance of joy and pleasure in your musical journey- which seems like something you shouldn’t have to say is important. But I think we’ll be digging into why that may be the case.

Thank you, everyone, for listening. And we’ll see you on the next one!

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There are almost as many approaches to learning music as …

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There are almost as many approaches to learning music as there are musicians.

Because it focuses on the expressive and creative skills of musicianship (rather than the theory or instrument skills) the Kodály approach is very closely related to the world of musical ear training.

What can Kodály do for you?

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6 Ways to Create A Musical Environment for Children

Many people make the mistake of thinking that children can only learn music in a formal setting. True, learning music in a class setting, through private lessons, or through practice and rehearsals is very important. But what would you think if I told you that a big part of a child’s music education happens through their environment, even at home?

That you can foster a musical environment for children that will position music as not just something to learn and practice, but something that is an exciting, indispensable part of their daily lives?

It’s no coincidence that so many master musicians tell a story of coming from musical households – where a record was always spinning, a piano stood in the living room, and parents encouraged them to play, sing, and dance to music.

Through the right guidance, a love for music can be nurtured and will stay with kids for a lifetime. So how can you better surround your children with music and promote their natural enthusiasm for it? Let’s count the ways…

1. Actively Listen to Music Together

I don’t know about you, but any time a song comes on, I can’t help but sing along or move to it. Music stirs us down deep in our souls. When a child listens to music, it awakens feelings they’ve never experienced before – and this positive reaction is something that inspires them to listen to, learn, and play music.

”Musical training is a more potent instrument than any other, because rhythm and harmony find their way into the inward places of the soul.” – Plato

 

Classical music is great starting point because it is truly a “universal language.” No matter what language a child speaks, where they live, or what their heritage is, every child can listen to the same piece of music and hear the same exact tones, harmonies, and instruments. Introduce kids to the music of the greats: Mozart, Beethoven, and Chopin are a great place to start.

Going further, it’s a wonderful idea to open your child’s ears to a vast array of styles and genres of music. Listening to music from other cultures and traditions can start great discussions about the instruments, rhythms, and melodies they hear, and expose them to the different ways of approaching musicmaking.

Active listening is a fantastic activity to practice with your child. The Kodály Method and the Orff Approach are two music learning frameworks that emphasize active listening in music, and promote kinesthetic engagement with the music. In Kodály, students listen to a piece of music and count the rhythms they hear, while Orff encourages children to move to the beat and explore the ways their bodies can move. Try out both with your kids!

The Kodaly and Orff methods both teach folk songs.  One of my favorite folk songs to listen to, which is also a fun dance, is “Jump, Jim, Joe.”  It’s simple enough to listen to while following along to what the words say:

For music appreciation, one of my favorite listening activities is to listen to “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong, because it evokes a series of vivid images and accompanying emotions. Have your children listen to the song and draw and color what the music makes them feel. The pictures that they come up with will seriously impress you!

2. Read Musical Books

I love the Emilie Buchwald quote “Children are made readers on the laps of their parents”. Children love to read and to be read to. What better way to foster a love of music than by reading books about music to our kids?

When a child reads about the piano, for example, it may spark an excitement about the instrument. They might go from reading about it, to listening to a Beethoven sonata, to having a desire to learn to play the piano. “The Story of the Orchestra” by Robert Levine is a great book through which children can learn about different instruments of the orchestra.

The music your children are listening to can be supplemented with books about the composers. One of my favorite books is Barbara Nichol’s “Beethoven Lives Upstairs”, offering a unique and heartwarming perspective on the composer’s life, struggles, and successes

Music is highly kinesthetic – so encourage your kids to move to it! Get your hands on books that inspire the kids to move, like “Bumpus Rumpus Dinosaurumpus” by Tony Mitton. In this book, the dinosaurs are doing several things that involve action words like stomping, jumping, twirling, and dancing:

When you read these words, the kids will love to act out what you’ve just said.

“My First Classical Music Book” by Genevieve Helsby is a great book for introducing children to the wonderful world of Classical music. The author does a great job explaining what Classical music is all about, while breaking it down to a kids’ level.

There’s a plethora of great books available about instruments, composers, musical genres, musical artists, and basic music theory. Keep your eyes peeled for engaging and educational books that you and your child can explore together.

3. Talk About Music

Namely, your own relationship to music – what music did you listen to growing up? Kids love to learn what grown ups were like when they were kids. Anything adults listen to on the radio nowadays is considered an “oldie” – so make that introduction!

When that “oldie” comes on the radio, have a conversation about what big band, doo wop, Classical, or jazz are. Talk about the amazing artists and performers who performed these genres of music.


Talking about music is a simple and incredibly effective way to connect with your kids or students, allowing them to get to know you even better as a person.
I remember hearing my dad tell me stories about learning to play the guitar and my mom telling me how she played saxophone in the high school marching band. As a high schooler who was playing piano and clarinet at the time, connecting over this shared experience was wonderful.

I remember my eyes lighting up the first time I went to The Nutcracker ballet. Watching the dancers moving around the stage and listening to the music made me realize what a live performance was really all about.

I’m sure you can close your eyes right now and remember similar experiences as a child. You were probably either taken to a concert, heard songs on the radio, or experienced watching your own parent play an instrument – and I’m guessing it was a very special, memorable moment! Your kids would love to share that same experience with you.

4. Explore Music Around You

Music is all around us. When you’re at a sports game, music is played over the loudspeakers.  When you’re watching a movie, the score and the soundtrack is what makes scenes come alive.  Even while walking a nature trail, the birds, wind, and leaves make music in the air.

When you’re out and about as a family, point out the ambient soundtrack of daily life to your kids – talk about background noises, elevator music in shopping malls, the soundtrack of that Disney movie you went to see together.

Are you an outdoorsy family? Explore music while camping! We’ve all been around a campfire, listening to the crickets and the crackle of the fire, and singing campfire songs. This experience of simultaneously singing and hearing nature’s soundtrack will truly stick with kids forever.

Kids may not even realize just how much music is a part of their daily lives. But, with each song they hear while they’re out and about, they experience an emotional reaction to the tune and a love for music continues to grow. Watch how many times you’re at home or outside and you catch yourself singing a song that’s stuck in your head. That, my friend, is the power of music.

5. Go To A Concert

Going to a live performance is one of the best ways children can truly experience music. Not only are they able to listen to music, but they are able to actively engage with it by watching the performers.

From traditional concerts like ballet, symphony, opera, and marching bands to contemporary options like modern dance performances, rock shows, and pop concerts, it’s easy to find a live performance that suits your family’s musical tastes.

”Through the right guidance, a love for music can be nurtured and will stay with kids for a lifetime. ”

Better yet, concerts serve as excellent motivation for kids learning instruments – there’s nothing like seeing a master musician show their incredible skill in person! If your child is in piano lessons, taking them to a concert of a professional pianist helps show them the rewards of practice and hard work – and of course, the excitement of being in the audience, giving a standing ovation, and practicing proper concert etiquette is also learned too.

6. Play Music Together

Maybe you’re musical yourself, and you love to sing or can play a musical instrument. Don’t be afraid to practice and perform with your children. Even if you’re a little rusty, they would love to share that experience of playing music with you.

Even if you aren’t musical at all, there are other ways you can play music together. Play music in your home on the radio or with Pandora or Spotify. Have a sing-along, make up some dance moves together, and perform a mini show for the rest of the family. Think of how many times you’re in the car together and can sing your favorite songs. Every time you do these things, you’re helping foster musical creativity in your child.

Think of the things you have laying around the house that can make music.  Put some popcorn kernels in an empty water bottle to make a shaker, tape two paper plates together and put coins in between them to make a tambourine, or even use a bucket as a drum. Then, while listening to music, you can explore different rhythms and steady beat. This is something I encourage music teachers to even do in their classrooms if they don’t have many instruments available to use.

A Musical Milieu

There is a lot going on in a child’s head – in particular, their curiosity about the world at large. Their interest in music is delightfully inherent, as what child doesn’t want to yell and sing and jump and dance? As parents, all you have to do is call their attention to the music present around them.

Besides helping hone your child’s musicality from a young age by filling their world with music as much as possible, it’s an excellent way to develop a bond with your child and develop another common language together – one that will strengthen over time as you continue to discover and explore music together.

How do you incorporate music into your children’s daily lives?

Jessica Peresta is the blogger and podcaster at The Domestic Musician, providing teachers with the music education resources, lesson plans, teacher training, and community they’ve been looking for.

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Innovative music educator Gregg Goodhart eschews the idea…

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Innovative music educator Gregg Goodhart eschews the idea of “natural talent”; instead, he believes that passion and hard work are at the root of musical learning.

Gregg has developed a pragmatic teaching method that emphasizes acquiring talent by repetition and making good use of practice time.

How can you tap into this new style of learning? Learn more:

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Learning, Playing and Thriving with Elisa Janson-Jones

Today on the show we’re joined by a musician, music teacher, entrepreneur, author, online summit host, small business coach, podcaster and band director. Which might sound like we have a crowd of guests assembled, but in fact these are all one person: Elisa Janson-Jones.

Elisa is the host of the Music Ed Mentor podcast, organiser of the International Music Education Summit and author of “The Music Educator’s Guide to Thrive”, and through these projects and more she is on a mission to help music teachers discover the non-musical skills that can empower them to succeed. As you’ll discover in this episode though, a lot of what Elisa has to share is just as applicable to the hobbyist or professional musician as it is a music teacher.

In this conversation we talk about:

  • Elisa’s own musical upbringing and how she came to play a huge number of different instruments.
  • The unique challenges of conducting an orchestra or band, and how you can actually learn to hear and follow dozens of different musical parts at once without needing to be born with some magical gift.
  • The 8 aspects of wellness that you should be thinking about if you want to enjoy your musical life to its fullest

… And Elisa also shares how she came to not only take up playing the ukulele recently, but actually build one from scratch herself!

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Christopher: Welcome to the show, Elisa. Thank you for joining us today.

Elisa: Well, thanks for having me on.

Christopher: So I’m always curious when I talk to music teachers and particularly those who are, kind of, thought leaders and admired among music teachers such as yourself. I’m always curious to know, were you one of those kids that was just playing every instrument from the age of five and never needed to be taught a thing, or what did your own music education look like?

Elisa: Well, I have a mother who’s a vocalist and my dad was a band teacher for more than 40 years, a band and choir teacher. So it was always in my home. We were always hosting parties with the band students over because he was a collegiate band director for many years and of course my mother was into musical theater so I was singing from an extremely young age and of course music was just, it was just part of our life. It was what you did and when it came, but as far as structured lessons I didn’t really have anything until I got into our elementary band in the fifth or sixth grade. Yeah. That was the start of my instrumental career but, like I said, I’ve been a vocalist and a performer since, probably, three years old.

Christopher: Wow, great. And what were you playing in that band when you joined in fifth or sixth grade?

Elisa: You know, I wanted to play the flute because my older sister played the flute so my dad said, “What do you want to play?” and I said, “The flute,” and he said, “No. You can’t play the flute. Your older sister already plays the flute. You have to play something else,” and of course, I was, like, “I don’t — huh?” Right?

So he said to me, “Say, ‘Mary had a little lamb’,” so I said, “Mary had a little lamb.” I was like, ten years old, right? And he goes, “You know what? You look like you could have a good French horn embouchure. I’m going to start you on cornet for a year and then we’ll switch you to French horn,” and that’s what we did.

I played trumpet and cornet for a year which I was remarkably good at because I had done motorboats in the bathtub until I was four years old so the buzzing came easy for me and then, of course, I switched to French horn, which is the hardest instrument in the universe.

Christopher: Okay, that’s super interesting. I was listening to an episode of your podcast where u were talking with a guy, I think his name was Mr. D, all about sight singing, and he was noting that he as a horn player had pitch advantage in that you were used to pitching the notes mentally before u play them, and that would help with the vocal side of things. Where there any other things from the vocal world that helped you with the French horn, or vice versa?

Elisa: Yes, of course. The more, it really came into play more when I was in college and started sight-singing myself. That improved my French horn playing because once you learn how the interval should sound, how things should sound on the page then it’s much more easy.

The thing that’s challenging about French horn is the notes are so close together, okay? So for the layperson you have to have a really fine-tuned embouchure to be able to change the notes or to be able to hear the difference and so if you can kind of preemptively know what it’s supposed to sound like it makes it so much easier and it wasn’t until I took two full years of sight-singing in college that that really started to be solidified as part of my musical prowess.

Christopher: Interesting. Yeah. That’s something that comes up from time to time in Musical U when we’re talking about singing in tune, for sure, because the idea of taking aim at the note rather than just opening your mouth and then thinking about what note you’re trying to hit, that can go a really long way, right?

Elisa: Yeah. So, I don’t know how much the French horn playing helped my sight-singing but my sight-singing definitely helped improve my French horn playing.

Christopher: That’s great. And so you were playing cornet for a couple of years and then moved to French horn and was it horn all the way after that?

Elisa: It was. Through high school I did do choir in high school as well and then I, of course, knew from a very young age, probably, you know, about the time I picked up the French horn and got involved in band that I wanted to be a music teacher. It helped that my dad was a music teacher, too, but most people would point out, it’s going to go one way or the other. Either you see your parent as a music teacher and you think, “Yes. That’s what I want to do as a career,” or you think, “Why on earth would I want to do that as a career? That is insane. You don’t make any money, you guys.” You know? But, anyway, I digress.

So then when I got into university that’s when I started picking up other instruments. Of course, I did marching band, I played the mellophone, I did brass, like, a British brass ensemble, so I did, like, a euphonium, kind of, E flat alto horn, if anybody knows what that is. It’s a pretty rare instrument. So mainly it was brass until I got into college but I picked up the others extremely quickly, actually.

Christopher: Let’s talk a little bit about that, because I think a lot of our listeners probably play one instrument and I know that some of them will feel like they don’t even quite play one instrument yet, so maybe you could speak a bit to why that was easy and why you weren’t, just, you know, starting from scratch with each of those different instruments.

Elisa: Well, sure, I mean, brass instruments, it’s the same thing, like I said, about French horn. If you can, kind of, feel out and hear out where those partials are, where those notes should be then it’s quite easy. All of the wind instruments kind of, once you get the tonguing and the blowing down, then it’s just a matter of fingering and embouchure on all of them. If you spend , like, 80% of your time on technique then you’re going to be able to spend 20% of your time just playing and having so much fun and so it kind of comes down to that.

But there are some relationships that are very similar, so, for example, if you start on, like, the recorder, those fingerings are very similar to the flute, which are also very similar to the the saxophone, and if you can play the saxophone then clarinet’s actually pretty easy and vice versa because the top hand fingerings are the same. So once you’ve kind of developed those core skills, the tongue, the air, the fingers and the reading, of course, the note reading, then it all, just, kind of, falls into place. So it’s kind of the same thing with strings, too, because I, I did do extensive string study in college. My goal in college learning all these instruments was just to be the very best band and orchestra teacher I could and I knew that having those foundational skills was really, really vital. Do you want to know what was really hard for me?

Christopher: I do.

Elisa: Drum set.

Christopher: Interesting. I am learning drums at the moment and it is a very different thing.

Elisa: Yeah. Like, I can do a rock beat. I can sometimes do, like, a 3-4 rock beat, but, like, that hand-eye thing, nothing, I feel like nothing in music has come easy for me. Nothing.

Christopher: Really?

Elisa: I feel like I, and, you know, I grew up my whole life, especially once I got through college and people said, “Oh, you play all these instruments. Oh, you sing so beautifully,” and my response is always, “Well, I worked hard to become so,” you know, I, maybe I had a little natural ability but I was trained from a very young age, you know, but I really do feel like I have had to work at everything that I have learned and accomplished.

Christopher: Interesting. I’ve been thinking for a while about getting T-shirts made up for Musical U that say something like, “No, I’m not a natural. I’ve just worked really hard,” and I can’t quite get the wording right, but I think something in that direction is a shirt a lot of us would be proud to wear.

Elisa: Well, you know, I’m in all these music teacher groups on Facebook and sometimes it comes up, you know, what’s your response when somebody compliments you on your music performance and, you know, when somebody hears me sing, I often do some MC work, you know, where I host events, and whatever, and I might do a little mike check where I sing a little and people will go, “Oh, my gosh. Oh, you have such a beautiful voice,” and I go, “Well, I have a degree in music. I really should,” you know? Like, I took voice lessons, people.

Christopher: Yeah. I feel like we could have a whole conversation about singing, in particular and the talent myth around singing because I think it’s more acute there than with any other instrument, where people just think, you know, you were born with an amazing voice when in reality the great singers have worked really hard to make that happen.

Elisa: Yeah. I saw a video recently of a great singer, I think it was Celine Dion and she was being interviewed on a talk show and the talk show host said, “Well, what do you do before you go onstage?” and she said, “I don’t want to tell you. It’s really boring,” and they’re, like, “It can’t be boring. You’re Celine Dion. You are this fabulous diva,” and she said, “No. It’s, like, r-r-r-r-r,” you know, and she starts going through, and it’s the same exact exercises that any good voice teacher is going to teach you and here she is, this consummate professional, and, you know, she’s had this immense career and she’s still doing those same vocal warmups before she goes onstage.

Christopher: I love that. That’s great. And so for you over those years you were picking up the instruments and from the outside I am sure it looked like you were just, kind of, swanning through life, picking up new instruments, but what did it look like from your perspective? What were the difficult bits or what were the big breakthroughs for you along the way?

Elisa: Oh, boy. Let me think about that. In learning multiple instruments?

Christopher: Not specifically. No, it’s just in your musical journey. Or, I could put it a different way and say, you know, if it wasn’t coming easy and if there was a lot of hard work involved, what was it that kept you going? What was it that made it a joy rather than a chore?

Elisa: Playing fun stuff.

Christopher: Hm.

Elisa: You know, like, getting to the point where, I wanted to get to the point where I could play whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted and so finding those opportunities, not just in my own personal practice but finding opportunities to perform outside of my home and outside of my practice, which has been extremely rewarding. I’m currently the conductor of our community band but before I was the conductor I played French horn in it and I played French horn in it because I wanted to, because it was fun. So I think it’s finding that, you know, what’s fun for you.

So when I was learning the flute, for example, I opened up a hymn book because they were songs that I knew, they were songs that I loved, they were songs that I could learn and really push myself toward. So I think that’s the other thing, is, you know, finding opportunities to not only do songs that you enjoy but songs that challenge you because to find the flow, which is that happy place, right, it needs to be hard enough that you’re challenged but not so hard that you’re frustrated and when you find that kind of sweet spot then it doesn’t matter what you’re playing. It’s fun.

Christopher: That’s great advice. And you were talking a little bit there about the impression people might have had about you and the reality. Would you say, you know, what you just described is a very, kind of, scientific, analytical way of thinking about practice is, you know, I’m going to consider my boundaries and find something that’s just on that threshold. That’s not the kind of creative, artistic, flighty musician who just, kind of, wanders about playing amazing things that a lot of people assume goes along with being a music major and a music teacher. What would you say your personality was like in that spectrum of things?

Elisa: You know, you put music in front of me, I can play it. You take the music away and I feel scared. I was not raised as, like, a jazz musician. I did learn jazz I college and of course I’ve taught jazz and I’ve taught improvisation but I still feel, like, that security when it comes to having the music in front of me.

And the thing that, and stop me if I’m totally getting off track, but I did quit teaching public school for a short time when my children were very little and that’s when I really focused on my private lessons studio and I spent that last paycheck, not the whole thing, but a lot of it, on a really nice guitar and I had never been a guitar player before but I thought, “You know what, it’s time for me to get my face out of the instrument or the instrument out of my face and learn to play something just for fun,” because everything else was work at that point, right?

And so I started learning guitar. I took lessons. My stepmom is a fantastic guitar player and teacher so I started out there and that, more than anything else, just being able to sing and play at the same time started to get my eyes off the music, right? And it wasn’t until then and this is after a, you know, 20-year career in performing arts. It wasn’t until then that I took my eyes off the music and that’s when I started to really realize that the music didn’t have to be on the page, it was in me.

Christopher: Wow. That’s amazing to hear and I, for me, I read something in a, I was teaching myself piano in my 20’s or returning to piano and I read something in a book that was talking about the importance of memorizing and it said something like, you know, “You only begin making music when you stop reading it,” and that really stuck with me that, you know, if you learn it from the sheet music fine, but then memorizing it gives you this freedom when it comes to actually playing it and it sounds like that’s kind of the experience you had where you realized that, “Oh, I don’t need to be pinned to the sheet music. I can actually create music and not have anything in front of me.”

Elisa: Yeah. And I could truly create it, you know, I, maybe it’s because the tools were fewer, you know? I work really well in a construct. Like, you give me the parameters and I can create within that and I feel like that gave me freedom by tying me down, right?

So it was, like, I gave myself three chords, okay? B flat, D and G, let’s say. And I would just start to create patterns with those three chords. But you’re absolutely right. I think you can be a fine musician and read the music, I mean, any symphony is going to prove that but I think you’re right, too, that if you truly want to be free to express you need to get your eyes off the music.

I recently had this experience. I was conducting an outdoor concert and I had the score open in front of me and the wind picked up and so my score was blowing. I couldn’t watch the music, right? “What do I do? I can’t — how can I cue people if I can’t see where to cue them? I can’t follow along?” Right? And it was, I mean, it was, I was fine. I was fine, because I knew the music well enough but it was, again, that little fear of, “I can’t read it,” right?

I should also say I’m a big collector of books and a a total bibliophile, okay, so the reading thing’s big for me. So anyway, after that I was, like, “This is never going to happen to me again,” and I spent the next week memorizing every score for our next concert because I was, like, “Whether it’s the wind or weather, I just want to make eye contact with the people. I want to connect to the actual music instead of just the notes.” I really dedicated myself to that and that was just something that happened, you know, two weeks ago, so it’s a continuous lifelong learning process, I guess.

Christopher: And aside from the sheer practicality of, you know, not needing to worry if the wind picks up, do you find it makes a difference?

Elisa: Yes.

Christopher: I mean, conducting is a slightly different thing, I suppose, but if we’re thinking about playing music or performing, do you find it makes a difference to how expressive you can be?

Elisa: Well, yeah, because I may not be playing an instrument but I’m playing the band, right? They crescendo when I indicate a crescendo and they decrescendo when I indicate that so in a way I’m playing all the instruments at once and it absolutely made a difference because, again, not only was I connecting to my players on a more personal level because I had my eyes up, I was making eye contact, but I was more confident in what I was doing which, in turn, reflected to their confidence as players and I was able to be more expressive through that, as well.

Christopher: Very cool. So I would love to pause on this for a moment because I think you’re the first guest we’ve had who has talked about conducting a band or an orchestra and I’d love for you to explain a little bit how that works and what it’s like, because I think it’s a, you know, if you think about the recorder as a fairly simple instrument where you are playing a melody line and your two hands are working together and, okay, your mouth is doing something but that’s fairly, kind of, clear cut.

And then maybe a guitar and piano are a bit more complex. You’ve got some left hand, right hand stuff and maybe your feet are involved and then, you know, something like, organ, you’ve got all kinds of stuff going on but at the far end of that I think is the conductor who is, as you say, playing all of the instruments at once in some sense and, in particular, what I’d love to hear about is the mental or aural skills that go into that because you need to be aware of everything that’s going on musically, not just a single melody line, not just melody in chords but, you know, dozens of parts. How does that work? How do you learn to do that and what does it take?

Elisa: It takes practice, like all good musical skills and just like I said before, I have had to work at every single thing that I’ve learned, including conducting. I was very fortunate to have three fabulous conducting instructors in college and so through that year and a half of private, nearly private instruction I was able to learn how to read. I actually have a score sitting here next to me so bear with me. This is “The Symphonic Suite for Star Trek.”

Christopher: Very cool.

Elisa: And I’m going to count the number of musical lines we have. One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, eleven, twelve, thirteen, fourteen, fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen, twenty, twenty one, twenty two, twenty three lines of music, all on one page, all different instruments.

So part of the skill is the same skill, and I’m going to lead into sight reading, here, okay, is pattern recognition. You start learning it in kindergarten. I know this because I teach kindergarten, right? And first grade and second, up to eighth grade. So the key is really recognizing those patterns that happen in the music, not just patterns of repetition but which instruments tend to be paired together, you know, what the beings look like, what scale patterns look like.

So the thing that makes me a strong sight reader is the same thing that makes me a strong conductor, is being able to look for those patterns, see them and be able to look ahead and then it comes back to the sight-singing thing.
You see how everything’s connected, here? Okay. Because if you can sight-sing, I can look at this music and go, “You know what? I know how that should sound and that’s not how it did sound,” and so in rehearsal I can go, “You know what, guys? You actually played that incorrectly,” and I know that because of my sight-singing skills.

Christopher: That’s a beautiful example, because, you know, to the layperson sitting in on that orchestral rehearsal or band practice they’re going to notice you being, like, “Wait, you played an E flat instead of an E back there in the horn section,” and they’re going to be, like, “What? What? How did she possibly know that?”

Elisa: Oh, I love playing that trick on my middle school kids, too, because, they’re, like, or I’ll have a choir of, like, 50 kids, right, and I’ll be able to pick out the one kid who’s not fitting in, right, who’s vowel is not correct and so it’s pulling them flat, right? Because their tongue isn’t curling up in the back enough and they’re, like, “But Ms. Jones, how did you know?” I’m like, “Years of experience. You’re singing it wrong and I can actually, like, hear that,” and they’re, like, “But how did you know it was me?” So it’s a good trick.

Christopher: So I don’t talk a lot about my opinions on teaching music on this podcast because although I have a viewpoint on what’s important in music education and not, I’m not a music teacher and I have a huge respect for those who do it, in person, day in and day out. At the same time I think it’s fair to say that there are teachers who just, kind of, show up and deliver a lesson plan and leave it at that and there are teachers who, and it sounds like you’re certainly one of them, who are really passionate and mindful and thoughtful about what they’re doing and who they are as a music teacher and that really came across in your book. You wrote a book called, “The Music Educator’s Guide to Thrive,” and I absolutely loved it, not least because although in the title it says it’s about music educators, so much of what’s in there is super useful and kind of mind-expanding for anyone in their profession, in their hobby, whatever it may be, and so if it’s all right I’d love to talk a little bit about that because this is kind of your guide for music teachers to, in my own words, to become the, kind of, fully-fledged music teacher rather than just someone who shows up and tries to tick the boxes and keep a salary coming in.

Elisa: Sure. Well, I’m thrilled that you want to talk about my book, of course.

Christopher: So, you, in the book you present kind of a mental model for thinking about your wellness as a music educator and you break it into eight different aspects. Can you think what those are and why there are as many as eight that people should be thinking about?

Elisa: Well, sure, but we have to backtrack just a tad, which is the impetus for the book. Teacher burnout, especially with music teachers, is incredibly high. The last figure I read was 50% won’t last seven years and that’s not a career, that’s a job, right? And so I started delving into why are teachers not thriving in this profession when I have these fabulous examples in my own family and in my life and in my own mentors who have lived this career for 40 years and have been successful, so that’s kind of where it started and, you know, I was going to be presenting at the national music educator’s conference, as well, so that was kind of an impetus, but really it comes down to if you have a well-rounded life, if you have a holistic approach to your own life then you’re going to eventually drive success.
The true issue comes when you neglect certain areas of your wellness, be it financial wellness or social wellness or your physical wellbeing, any one of those things, if it’s neglected you will suffer and so the idea is to minimize suffering by focusing holistically on your own wellbeing. So, for example, you said you want to talk about physical wellbeing, right? I mean, it’s impossible, let me give a story, here.

I was in high school and I had this fabulous band teacher, adored her, Mrs. Leyvah, I’m going to say her name because she’s retired now but she was fabulous. She got sick a lot and so it was great for me because I was the student conductor, okay, so I was teaching band in high school, if we’re technical about it, right? But it also was detrimental to the program that she was gone so often because of health issues. I don’t know what those health issues were or anything but that’s a frequent complaint among music teachers. We’re around small children all the time just as most of us who go to work at any kind of place outside of our own home, we’re around people who are sick, we could get sick ourselves and not only is that destructive to our mental and emotional wellbeing but it could hurt our finances, it could hurt any number of things so if we just think the time to focus on our physical wellness and not just through diet but also through exercise, which in turn helps our emotional wellbeing, it helps us to have a clarity of thought.

I was not active as a young child, unless you count marching band, which you should count marching band because it’s hard, okay? But I lived a very sedentary life all through college and it wasn’t until I was pushing 30 and my mother and father both got diagnosed with diabetes that I was, like, “Oh, boy. I really need to focus on my health,” and I started riding my bike and I started racing triathlons and it wasn’t until I started to feel truly good that I realized how good I could feel or how good I should feel and even still on the days when I ride my bike to work, because, yes, I do bike commute pretty frequently, gets me about 20 miles in on the bike. I get to school, I change my clothes in the bathroom, right, or in my office, and I teach that day with a much more calm and centered demeanor just because of that little bit of physical activity, just because of that little bit of connection to nature. So that kind of is the physical wellbeing part. It’s really nurturing ourselves physically.

So then you go to, like, cognitive wellbeing, which I think is another one that you mentioned that stood out for you and that’s the continuous development of our mind. So taking time to delve into challenging things and it could be reading self-help books like mine. I recommend it. You know, but it doesn’t have to be just that. You could watch a TED talk, you could read a book about astronomy but as long as, the idea of being a lifelong learner. You could take up a new instrument, which is something that I recently did, actually, as if there are any more instruments for me left to learn to play, you know, and then your emotional wellbeing. If you take time to practice your emotional wellbeing through meditation and mindful practices and, you know, guided meditation, affirmations, I know that for some people that sounds like super, super frou-frou, but if you think about it, it’s something we’re doing all the time. We are constantly telling ourselves what we are and that’s all affirmations are. We can choose to say, “I’m beautiful. I’m fabulous. I’m talented. I’m picking up this instrument so easily. I’m playing guitar so well. Look at how much I’ve improved from last week,” or we can just be out of control with those thoughts and then it could be, “Wow, guitar is so frustrating. Why is this so hard for me?”

So if you think about it in terms of it’s stuff you’re already doing only now, instead of letting that happen to you, you’re going to take charge of that happening and you get to be the boss of what happens and for somebody like me, I might be standing in the classroom of 50 fourth-graders, okay? These are eight and nine-year-old kids and they love to talk, they love to be belligerent, they love to joke around and sometimes it does get out of control and it’s in those moments when I can invoke this potential that I’ve created in myself because I’ve practiced, right, to take a deep breath and be mindful and reset that situation and that could be the case for any stressful situation, you know, if you’ve practiced how to be centered, how to be mindful, how to live in the moment and be able to take a deep breath and think clearly and be emotionally centered then life does not enact itself upon you, you enact yourself upon life. Sorry, was that really deep and [Unintelligible [00:29:56]?

Christopher: That was beautiful. No, I’m 100% on board and I love that this is all inspired by the desire to help more music teachers have the career they hope to rather than burning out, fizzling out, getting frustrated. That’s wonderful. I think, at the same time, hearing you talk about it, it’s probably clear to everyone listening that this is not advice that only applies to music teachers, you know, this is good life advice for anyone, I think, and I’m going to play devil’s advocate for a second because I think what you just, kind of, painted a picture of is clearly a really rich existence, you know, it’s not, “I’m pigeon-holed in my job. I’m doing it day-to-day. I’m just, kind of, getting through the day,” this is a life that’s rich emotionally, physically, spiritually and you’re learning all the time. It sounds amazing. How is there enough time for all of that?

Elisa: So when I first started it, I had a friend turn me on to a book called, “The Miracle Morning,” and it’s a great book. If you want to read it a lot of the same concepts are talked about in my book as well.

So I started with ten minutes in the morning. I woke up ten minutes earlier and I had a list of six things that I wanted to do, right? So meditation, affirmations, visualization, journal writing, reading and exercise, okay? So I set a timer because I was, like, “I’ve only got ten minutes, friends. I’ve got three kids, two part-time jobs, I’m trying to be an entrepreneur, I’ve got lessons to teach this afternoon. I’ve got to get it done,” right? So I did, like, two minutes per each thing and then, like, one minute of visualization, one minute of affirmations and that was it.

And so it started with ten minutes per day and then I realized I wanted more and so then it went to 20 and then it went to 30 and now I dedicate an hour or so of time every morning. I start with yoga to wake my body up, I, don’t get me into lifestyle practices, because I’ll tell you exactly what I’m doing and you’ll think I’m insane, so, we’re not going to go there, but, you know, if it’s truly a priority, you’ll make time for it, and I learned that from a TED talk, actually.
You know, if your house floods then what does your schedule look like, then? It looks like you’re dealing with your house flooding, right? And so it’s just a matter of making it that big of a priority and I didn’t want to be just living life anymore, you know? I didn’t want to be just going to a job and so if you really want to improve your life you can start with as little as five minutes a day, six minutes a day and you’re not going to see immediate improvement.

I mean, just like with everything and especially with learning a musical instrument you’re not going to see immediate improvement. You’re not going to be on book two after the second week of playing or, you know, lesson six. It takes time and after a month of that practice then you start to realize, “Wow, I’m getting along better with people at work,” you know, “Wow, I have a little more money in my checking account than I usually do this time of the month.” So if you’re actually looking at improving your life in a very significant way, with those baby steps, it does have to be consistent.

Christopher: Well, I think you have a similar nature to me in that you tend to be quite, kind of, logical and methodical and I think that comes across in this framework you’ve put together, but for me growing up, self-help books and things like affirmations, I was always highly skeptical, you know, I’m a scientist by background. That stuff seemed super woo-woo, wasn’t on board but the more I got into —

Elisa: My first degree is in science, by the way.

Christopher: Well there you go.

Elisa: Science, music, and business are what my degrees are in. But anyway, go on.

Christopher: Well, you know, for me what made me give it a chance and explore that stuff was more and more the people I admired and particularly in the world of entrepreneurship were talking about this stuff. These weren’t flimsy people, these weren’t, kind of, hopeless people who were kind of looking for any opportunity to feel good about themselves. These were people that were really accomplishing things and they were talking about visualization and affirmations and goal-setting and planning and all of this stuff from the self-help books and I think you’re a perfect example yourself.

You know, you are not the average music teacher and for someone who’s studied self-help and that whole, kind of, self-management and self-development it would come as no surprise that you are out there achieving great things and so you’re not just a music teacher, you’ve also written this book and you’re the host of a very popular podcast, “The Music and Mentor Podcast.” You’ve put together this amazing online summit for music educators to learn from the best in the business and you also have a great collaboration with one of the leading, kind of, music education platforms, Smart Music, so I don’t want to sell you short by blitzing through all of those amazing accomplishments but I did just want to note that, you know, you’re not someone who is making these recommendations because you hope they’ll work or because they sound like a good idea. These are things that you have applied and have seen great results from.

Elisa: Yeah. And you just touched on my own personal mission, I mean, I’ve decided to help music teachers because I am a music teacher, because I was raised by music teachers but the true mission is teaching entrepreneurship to music teachers, right, because, like you said, as entrepreneurs, we’ve learned so much from these people that we admire about the metaphysical world, let’s say, and yet as teachers we’re struggling because we don’t have that training, right? Most teachers have never heard of how to do a SWOT analysis, which you didn’t mention. I do have an MBA and I’m a business consultant as well. So I do SWOT analysis all the time but it’s something that you say that to a music teacher and they’re like, “What?” and you’re, like, “Dude, it’s an essential tool that can be utilized to improve your program or improve yourself or improve anything in your life,” and so my personal mission is to take these business skills, these entrepreneurial skills and slide them into the career of music education.

Christopher: Awesome. Well, I’m having to hold myself back because I feel like you and I could talk for another several hours just about this topic.

Elisa: Well, we have to talk about ukelele.

Christopher: Exactly. We have to talk about ukelele.

Elisa: We have to talk about the ukelele.

Christopher: And I think what we’ll have to do is invite you to come and give a masterclass at Musical U and share some of these entrepreneurship skills with our members there because, as you say, it is hugely powerful stuff that’s often relegated to the world of business and left out of reach of people who would really benefit. So all I’m going to do is direct people to your book and for anyone listening do not be put off for a moment by it being “The Music Educator’s Guide.” Just think of it as “The Human’s Guide to Thrive,” and you’ll get an awful lot out of it and we will certainly have links in the show notes to the Music Ed Mentor Podcast and to the Music Education Summit and to make sure people can find out more about those, but let’s wrap up by talking about the ukelele, which is one of my own favorite instruments. Where did ukelele come into the picture for you?

Elisa: Okay. So a couple of years ago I bought a ukelele for my son, right? And it just kind of sat on the shelf because he was nine and not that into it, okay? Of my three kids, he’s the only one who’s not, like, super gung-ho into the music thing yet, all right? Meanwhile, last spring, it was just a few months ago, I was interviewing another elementary music teacher for my podcast and we were talking about how neither one of us have, like, super-amazing piano skills, right? And he said, “You know, what works for me is I play the ukelele. That gives me the background chords where I can pluck out the notes and it’s small, it’s helpful,” and I had originally tried doing guitar.

As I mentioned, I took up guitar and that was just too big, too bulky to work with little kids so this idea of, like, something small that I can hold in my hands and it’s okay if the kids touch it. And then it helps that my husband has a ukelele and has been playing ukelele for a years so I was, like, ‘You know what? Maybe over spring break I’ll pick up the ukelele,” right? And I am not a young woman and I have played almost every other instrument and I became obsessed with the ukelele because it was just so much fun and it opened my eyes to, you know, getting out of the music. It was the first time I truly, like, became, I was improvising. Like, he was playing chords and I was playing the melody and it was just mind-blowingly fun for someone who, as you said, is pretty musical, it was a new thing for me and no, it has not been easy, just like everything else, I’ve had to work at it and then of course I built my own ukelele.

Christopher: Of course. That’s the obvious next step. You’re going to have to fill in a little more of that story.

Elisa: Well, I wanted to, I started playing with the little one that I had bought for my son, you know, and it was painted and it sounded okay but my husband has this beautiful Gretsch ukulele and I was, like, “Oh, man, I want something nicer. I deserve something nicer. I’m a music educator,” right? And so I went around to all the music stores in our town and, just, they were all out of my price range or I didn’t, the cheap ones just didn’t sound as good to me and then I got thinking, “You know what? I between I could build my own,” and so I found a kit. It wasn’t, just, glue the pieces together. It was in-depth building and, you know, I’ve built websites, I’ve built businesses, I’ve built music programs, I’ve built concert bands, I’ve built non-profits, I’ve built, you know, all these things but I’ve never built something to hold in my hands like that and it took this whole other side of my brain, I would say, almost the artsy side, right, the creative side, the side that can see the way pieces come together and that was extremely hard for me. And then, of course, if I drill it here, I can’t take that back. Measure three times. But, anyway, now it’s done and it’s a beautiful, mahogany ukulele and it was one of the most challenging things I’ve ever done. Now I play it every night and I love it.

Christopher: Fantastic. Well, Elisa, I don’t know how you find the time for all of that, even if it’s, you know, ten minutes or 60 minutes in the morning to cram everything in, you manage an incredible amount and it’s certainly an inspiration. All that remains is to say a big thank you for joining us on the show today. There was a ton of really interesting stuff in there that I’m going to go away and think more about and I know our listeners will be inspired and encouraged to explore a little bit more of what their musical life could offer for them.

Elisa: Good, well, thank you so much for having me on and best of luck to everybody. Lifelong learning.

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